How many times do we wait for the other shoe to drop, stay the course for the wind to blow us to calmer sea? We say this isn’t our time yet, we let fate decide, maybe it’s not now or maybe it’s not yet. In the meanwhile, we question all the things around us, our past, our present and the coming future that has still not come. We forget the fact that everything is connected to the bigger picture which is still out of focus and nothing can stop it to become the “Mona Lisa” of your life.
Your flaws are perfect for the heart that is meant to love you. Don’t be pushed around by the fears of your mind, be led by the dreams in your heart and act as if what you do makes a difference because it really does. It does not matter if things look bad or maybe worst at this moment, but it is not going to be the same much longer. The only thing that you should worry about is how to be positive during that period, trust yourself and believe that everything will fall in place eventually. When it does you will be a much stronger person then your are today.
My dad passed away last year on 18th May 2018 and this has been the hardest thing that I have ever gone through. Everything changed into me in one night. I thought I will not be able to ever pass this but with the help of time, my family and especially my friends I did. I am a very strong woman and I have always been but losing my dad has made me scared and question everything around me. I had not slept properly for months and had found myself in the middle of the night checking every single human being in my house whether they were breathing or not. I was a person that could not sleep if someone snored in the same room and today I feel snoring is a blessing. For the past 1 year, I took one day at a time, just went with the flow, try to be positive and believed that time will change and everything thing around me will be better. I was not able to get over my grief of losing my father so as I was not able to help myself, I started helping my friends and family and ended up repairing myself. I am not saying it is easy to think straight in difficult times but it is not impossible. Love and hope are all it takes, your love for others and hope that tomorrow will change everything.
Everything in life has the right time and waiting for it is the only challenge. Things will be better that we already know as we have learned the same in past but challenges are what makes life interesting and overcoming them is what makes it meaningful. Learn to appreciate the hardships that are shaping you into the person you have become today, stronger, wiser and happy. Every weakness you have is an opportunity for you to show your strength in your life. Your time will come !!!! My time will come !!!! and Our time will come !!!!