People teach us a lot of things in life, whom to hate, whom to love, whom to let go and whom to keep in life. I always feel why do we care for people who don’t even deserve the care that we give them? Why are we so nice to people who are bad to us? Are we still following the old school rules that we should be nice to people who are bad to us because it shows your character?
Why can’t we just be bad and teach people one very brutal lesson of life,”Tit for Tat”. Bad people always do what they want and feel it is easy to get away with it. They forget one rule of nature that, “everything bounces back”. What they do today will backfire on them tomorrow. It is a cycle of life and it’s very important to believe in it. When the good will take over the bad; then running away is the only choice that they will have.
I believe it is better to fight for your own right rather than waiting for life to change things for you. The heaven and the hell are both present on earth. All lessons of life also have to be learned on earth. It is okay to be bad for bad people. The person who suffers the pain given by bad people is equally responsible for this situation with the person who gives the pain. Take control of the situation and release yourself from the pain. This is our 1st priority towards us.
Being selfish with selfish people is important sometimes because it is important to take care of your own self as compared to taking care of others. If we are not okay; what is the point of making the world feel good about them. Happiness starts with you. Be selfish, think for yourself also, take care of people who take care of you and give one tight slap to people who mess with your happiness. Self-absorbed people only think about what makes them feel happy at the moment, they don’t have any respect or regard for anyone else. Then they wonder why their relationship fails. Relationships aren’t designed for selfish individuals. Don’t play with someone’s heart if you have no intention for a serious relation. Avoid relations where the other person thinks that it is your duty to make them happy. The only person worth to be in your life are the ones that help you through a hard time and laugh with you when the time passes. It is like, “Don’t ask me to do something for you that you would not be able to do for me”. Selfish people tend to only be good to themselves… they are surprised when they are alone. It is like, “He/she wants everything from you, but isn’t prepared to give anything to you’. So you should stop giving them anything at all. Selfish people lose so much in life, because even when they realize that they are wrong; they don’t know how to ask for forgiveness or show regrets.
You are allowed to terminate toxic relationships. You are allowed to walk away from people who hurt you. You are allowed to feel angry, selfish and unforgiving. You don’t own anyone any explanation for taking care of yourself.