We do make mistakes in life. As we know we are humans and making mistakes and learning from them is our nature. We make mistakes, we realize it, we feel sorry about it, we say sorry and in return we expect forgiveness. Why do we say sorry? Why do have to hear the things the opposite person says during this process? Why do we have to explain ourselves to everyone every time even if it is actually not even a mistake? Why do we have to beg, plead and cry just to get forgiveness from them and get the situation back to normal? Are we scared to lose the person or are we trying to fit in the society today?
We are scared of people judging us for making a decision which does not fit as per the society trends. We are scared of standing for our own rights which are a little different than the usual once. We every time forget something very important about our own life, “No one has any right to take decision for us. Our right to make decisions about our life is only in our hands. We should have the courage to stand for the things which truly belongs to us”.
People will always be judgmental about us and this will never change. People will try to put us down for being different, pressurize us to change, force their rules on us and may be even hurt us but none of this will work if we are strong enough to stand after every letdown. We should fight for the thing that we wish for and rise higher after a pathetic failure. No one can hurt you if you don’t want them to. Make ourselves so strong that nothing around you should affect you. Make your thinking like as if every failure is a new opportunity to grow and succeed. Every failure is the new door to success. Please do things in your life as if there is no tomorrow. Be happy and make people happy around you.
People, please don’t judge us till you know us. Please don’t underestimate us until you have challenged us. Please don’t talk about us until you have talked to us. You people cannot handle half of what we have dealt with. There is a reason why we do things that we do. There is a reason why we are and who we are. Please don’t judge us by our decisions, if you don’t understand our reasons. You don’t know what we have been through and what we felt or we are feeling right now. Please find something to do with your time rather than judging someone who you don’t even know properly.
Don’t judge us from our past. We are not in the past anymore. Accept us for who we are because this is who we are today.