I am a woman that a man needs !!!!


Dear Readers,

I have always wondered what it is like to be a man. You can wear what you want, you can do what you want, you are the 1st priority in the family as you earn for the family. You choose the girl to marry and give her a life. You are her need to survive in life. My point is,” A wives life revolves around a man all her life”. It kept me thinking about myself that what kind of woman am I,” A woman that need a man or woman that a man needs?”

I feel I am not the princess that needs saving, I am a queen and I got this shit handled. I am not someone who can be controlled. I want someone who will watch me do my thing and be like,” That’s my girl”. I somehow believe in the fact,” A weak man cannot love a strong woman. He won’t know what to do with her”. Of course, I am not worried about intimidating men. The type of man who will be intimidated by me is the exactly the type of man I have no interest in. Funny thing about a real woman,” They don’t need you, they want you and if you start slacking they can be content without you”. A strong woman will automatically stop trying if she feels unwanted. She won’t fix it or beg she will just walk away.

I am a woman. I am not perfect. I am sometimes selfish. Occasionally self-destructive and prone to very brief, yet severe, spells of sadness. But I would fight until every bone in my body was broken to protect my loved once and that’s a promise. I need no fancy clothes to make me look sexy. I need no man by my side to make me look sturdy. I don’t need to tell lies, my honesty is my beauty. I am smart in my head and have a lot of courage in my heart. I have confidence with-in myself and I am compassionate in my thoughts. I am independent, able, strong and graceful in any situation life shows me.

In life, sometimes you will just be too much woman, too smart, too beautiful, too strong, too much of something. That makes a man feel like a less of a man. Will start making you feel like you have to be a less of a woman. The biggest mistake you can make is removing jewels from your crown to make it easier for a man to carry. When it happens, I need you to understand, you do not need a smaller crown…… You need a man with bigger hands.

“Dear woman, you don’t find your worth in a man. You find your worth within yourself and then find a man who’s worthy of you. Remember that.”

Swati Chaurasia


4 thoughts on “I am a woman that a man needs !!!!

  1. GaryVincentoday

    You sound a strong woman, as a man i like to see an independent woman achieving all that she can. Gone are the days where man bring bread to the table the woman has a huge impact upon a mans life and keeps the family together, brings money in, feeds the family and does all those things that man once did x

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  2. Loved it..and i totally agree with you. In today’s day and age, all of us need to give up the old mentality that a man has find the right or worthy woman. A man first needs to be worthy enough too. And yes you are a queen and not just a princess looking for a rescue. Proud of u 😉

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