Never Fall In Love !!!


Dear Readers,

We as an individual dream of a perfect life, a happy ending and what conquers all is love. This thought has been planted with our brains since we started watching fairy tales. We meet the perfect man, fall in love, get married and live happily ever after. In reality, there is nothing to knows as a perfect man, yes we do fall in love, we do get married but I still have dough on the happy ending thing.

What happens when we don’t find that one perfect man? What if love is not enough for a happily ever after? That means we will never get married and land up being single all our lives? I still don’t know how to react to this but in our modern world today love is just like having a burger, you find a burger joint, you try the burger, if you like the taste you become regular customer to the burger joint and when you had enough of the taste and the place, you find a new place to eat. When did love become less love and more materialist adjustment?

There are still some people that really love. They are on the verge of extinction. Soon a time will come when love will be just in the books and we will hear about it in the stories. People really don’t understand that relationship isn’t for taking things. They are for giving things. In real love, we never fall in love to make ourselves happy. We fall in love to make our love happy. It is really getting hard to trust someone when everyone you ever opened your heart of lets you down. It is like you are falling for someone that is not ready to catch you.

Never fall in love, fall off a bridge…. It will hurt you less !!! Even if we fall in love again with someone new, it could never be the same way how it was before. The pain part in love is carried forward to the next love and I hate to tell this but you are never without baggage if your heart was broken. The pain part of love will test you every single day. It will let you dough your decision and make you feel that falling in love is a mistake that you want to make again. Yes, we are human and we want to make the same mistakes again and again, expecting a different result out of it which will never happen. Maybe you are lucky in love…. I am not….

PS: Please don’t fall in love, other than the pain it was nothing to offer.

Swati Chaurasia.


5 thoughts on “Never Fall In Love !!!

  1. Amazing read…makes u think. Life is full of difficult choices..falling in love is one of them. And this isnt something you make consciously. The end result will definitely make u ponder whether u made a right choice or not. But then thats the case with everything else in life. Dont let heartbreaks or drawbacks bring you down. Have hope..everything will be better. I remember reading about hope in one of your it is the basis of all existence. How can u stop believing that?

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    • Swattiluvblog

      Thank you so much for reading my blog 🙂 I agree with you, just going through a rough patch in life. I will come back even stronger. Thanks for the support 🙂

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  2. Ritu Sharma


    Nice thoughts but do take care of vast grammatical errors as it completely flips over the entire meaning of whatever is intended. Also presentation is very poor due to poor English and the analogy. .. don’t even get me started on it…. cannot stop laughing about it. Lost the connectivity with the text when I sighted fine… was it suppose to be find???

    Improve your English first.


    • Swattiluvblog

      Dear Ritu,

      Thank you so much for the time that you took to write on my comment box. I know my English is not good but there is nothing to be laughed about. It is not a good thing to laugh on anyone’s weakness. I know where I stand in life and I know where i want to go. My education has not been that great to be very good in English and yes my basics are not clear. I am working on it too. You are no one to tell me what I am suppose to do about it. If you don’t like my stuff then please don’t read. It is not nice to discourage a person who is trying to put efforts. Not every one in life are as lucky as you to have everything.

      Thank you so much for reading my blog 🙂


    • Hi Ritu..
      Firstly would like to congratulate you on your expensive education. Secondly, am really curious as to how old you are? I personally feel you’re not even old enough to be on the which case congratulations are in order again for such an impeccable display of written english. Just a word of advice..criticising is one thing but what you did right here was downright disgusting. Try and act mature. Knowing how to read and write one particular language doesnt make you superioir in any way. Hope you learn that the easy way soon enough. Take care

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