We as an individual dream of a perfect life, a happy ending and what conquers all is love. This thought has been planted with our brains since we started watching fairy tales. We meet the perfect man, fall in love, get married and live happily ever after. In reality, there is nothing to knows as a perfect man, yes we do fall in love, we do get married but I still have dough on the happy ending thing.
What happens when we don’t find that one perfect man? What if love is not enough for a happily ever after? That means we will never get married and land up being single all our lives? I still don’t know how to react to this but in our modern world today love is just like having a burger, you find a burger joint, you try the burger, if you like the taste you become regular customer to the burger joint and when you had enough of the taste and the place, you find a new place to eat. When did love become less love and more materialist adjustment?
There are still some people that really love. They are on the verge of extinction. Soon a time will come when love will be just in the books and we will hear about it in the stories. People really don’t understand that relationship isn’t for taking things. They are for giving things. In real love, we never fall in love to make ourselves happy. We fall in love to make our love happy. It is really getting hard to trust someone when everyone you ever opened your heart of lets you down. It is like you are falling for someone that is not ready to catch you.
Never fall in love, fall off a bridge…. It will hurt you less !!! Even if we fall in love again with someone new, it could never be the same way how it was before. The pain part in love is carried forward to the next love and I hate to tell this but you are never without baggage if your heart was broken. The pain part of love will test you every single day. It will let you dough your decision and make you feel that falling in love is a mistake that you want to make again. Yes, we are human and we want to make the same mistakes again and again, expecting a different result out of it which will never happen. Maybe you are lucky in love…. I am not….
PS: Please don’t fall in love, other than the pain it was nothing to offer.