Relationships are supposed to be equal to everything. Equal when you fight, equal when it comes to working at home and fair to both partners but that is not the reality. The relationship really is like between a boss and a subordinate, the boss is the one that has the right to make any number of mistakes and should have no consequences and on the other hand subordinate should not react to any wrongdoing of the boss and behave as if nothing happened at all. I am sure we all have been in the above state, crying out loud from your heart and smiling at the face.
When we commit to any relationship we wish that our partner respects us, they support us in whatever we want to say or do, hold us when we are falling apart because of the worries of the world, keeps their worries aside when they see that the person that they love has not smiled for months, understands us when no one understood but I guess it is all just a dream and dreams don’t come true to some cases. Does this mean we have no hope of a life that we have dreamed our entire life, a dream of a non- perfect but still perfect for me relationship? Hope does not let anything die without a fight and we should never stop fighting for our life.
Sometimes it is time to help yourself, Nothing in the world can be the end of your world. No human has the courage to finish you unless and until they literally kill you. Stay away from people that can’t take responsibility for their actions and who makes you feel bad for being angry at them when they do you wrong. Stop trying to change someone who does not want to change. Stop giving chances to someone who abuses you and your forgiveness. Stop walking back to the same place where your heart ran away from. Stop trusting their words, and ignoring their actions. Stop giving your all to the person that gives you nothing. Stop fighting for a relationship when you are standing in the ring alone. Stop breaking your own lovely heart. Not fair for you !!!
They don’t deserve you if they can’t do their part right. Know your worth and know that you deserve to least be met halfway. If they don’t match your efforts they should not be in your life. At your absolute best, you still won’t be good enough for the wrong person. At your worst, you will still be worth it to the right person. If there is even a slight chance of getting something that will make you happy, risk it. life is too short and happiness is too rare. Love yourself !!!