In life, we spend too many time thinking of what others will think of us. We just want to fit in a place where at every step we take we will be judged. We are always surrounded by a million hands that want to put us down and show us how they are better than us. We are so dominated by the rules of the society that we have no courage to speak our heart. All our feeling, dreams, hope, and desires are crushing to death in our own head and we are not allowed saying that out loud. Is this the kind of life that we wished for? Is it fair to live like this?
People around us have a habbit of satisfying their ego and broken self-esteem by pushing us into a well where we feel worthless. If we don’t reply to this crap then the only thing we are doing wrong is hurting ourselves. Work on being in love with the person in the mirror who has been through so much but still standing. Not fair to him right?
We know our story much better than the people that sit us and judge. We know who we are and we know how our journey has changed our lives. Our Experiences have tough us to keep our patients and always do the right thing. We like who we are today and we love the fact that in spite of so much going on around us, we made it this far with a smile. Not all people can do that. It takes a lot of courage to come this far without support. We have the right to do what we want.
So people that have no other work other than judging us, get off our backs and deal with it. It’s our life and we are the one that will make the rules. We lived, we loved, we lost, we missed, we have been hurt, we trusted, we made a lot of mistakes but most of all we still love our lives. You may know our names but you still don’t know our story. You have heard what we have done but you still don’t know what we have been through.
My life, My Choices, My Mistakes, My lessons, Not your business. So keep your nose out of my business !!!. I am only responsible for what I say not for what you understand. I am 90% sure that you don’t like me, but I am 100% sure I don’t care anymore. The older I get the more I understand that It is okay to live a life that others don’t understand. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad or guilty for living your life on your terms.
My life My Rules !!!! So, whatever happens, it will affect me not you !!!!